12 Habits That Hurt Intimacy
Intimacy fades not from one big event, but from everyday habits that create quiet distance. This post explores 12 common patterns that undermine connection - and offers simple, relational-based ways to rebuild closeness through small, intentional moments. Includes a free couples activity to deepen connection.
The Many Ways We Love: A Relationship Exploration Part III
Explore the science of happiness in relationships in Part 3 of our “The Many Ways We Love” relationship series. This blog examines whether people in monogamous or non-monogamous relationships are more satisfied, what the latest research tells us, and how myths around monogamy shape our understanding of love. Reflect on what truly makes relationships fulfilling and discover how different structures can support authentic connection.
The Many Ways We Love: A Relationship Exploration Part II
Explore the history of non-monogamy in Part 2 of our “The Many Ways We Love” relationship series. This blog traces how non-monogamy has shaped cultures across time, why monogamy became dominant, and what these historical shifts mean for relationships today. Deepen your understanding of love, connection, and human relational complexity.
The Many Ways We Love: A Relationship Exploration Part I
Explore the foundations of ethical non-monogamy (ENM) in Part 1 of our "The Many Ways We Love" relationship series. This blog unpacks common ENM structures, while addressing myths, emotional challenges, and the principles of consent and communication that define them. Learn how ethical non-monogamy offers diverse, intentional ways to build relationships beyond traditional monogamy. Read now to deepen your understanding of love, connection, and human relational complexity.
Live in Alignment or Play it Safe? The Cost of Integrity Over Comfort
Why living in alignment doesn’t always feel easy - but choosing integrity over comfort can transform relationships, self-trust, and personal growth. Learn the difference between people-pleasing, self-abandonment, and true distress tolerance, with reflective questions and resources to help explore patterns and choices more deeply.
Wants, Needs, and Expectations: Why Clarity Matters in Relationships
Learn the key differences between wants, needs, and expectations in relationships - and how naming them clearly can strengthen connection, reduce conflict, and improve communication. Includes a free reflection worksheet for couples.
Anticipatory Anxiety: How to Break Out of Decision-Paralysis
Struggling with decision paralysis? This post breaks down anticipatory anxiety, why it shows up around meaningful choices, and how to build the resilience to move forward - even when we're unsure. Learn why anxiety isn’t the enemy, and how to take the next step with more confidence and self-trust.
Rough Patch, or Something Deeper? A Pulse Check for Relational Connection
Feeling disconnected in your relationship? Explore whether you're in a rough patch or something deeper - and what kind of reconnection you might need. Learn how small moments of disconnection can build up, how to recognize the signs early, and how to begin realigning through communication, boundaries, and unmet needs. Includes a free quiz and reconnection guide.
Roles We Play: The Illusion of Fixed Identities That No Longer Fit
Feeling disconnected from who you really are? Explore how identity forms through old roles we played, relationships, and survival patterns — and how to reclaim your authentic self by letting go of what no longer fits. Learn how change, differentiation, and presence can bring clarity and connection.
4 Steps to ‘Build Capacity’ in Relationships (And Why It’s Essential for a Strong Connection)
Discover 4 powerful steps to build capacity in relationships by mastering the essential skill of emotional safety. Tips for learning how active listening, trust, and shared truth can build lasting connection that can transform your relationship, starting today.